Unpopular opinion: I can’t stand public breastfeeding. It is not common in my country, and fortunately I’ve only seen women breastfeeding in public twice. It makes me nauseaous to see other women’s breasts in public.
I don’t understand why they don’t pump and have their milk in a bottle if they…
I think you understand that the point is, if your baby is hungry, then by all means nurse no matter where you are. But I’ll agree with you that seeing women nurse in public without a cover also makes me uncomfortable. People can choose to plan better and pump prior to an outing, but they’re not obligated to. That’s probably my biggest pet peeve.
But if they can’t pump? If they don’t want to give a bottle to their baby? What if its the middle of the summer and its 90 degrees out? Do you want a blanket over your head while you eat? You can’t just make up an ideal situation and say that’s what woman should do, think about the different factors that could happen.
No one is obligated to modify how they NIP simply because of how it makes others feel. All I’m saying is that I agree with OP that it does make me uncomfortable when no cover is used.
Why? Don’t you have breast yourself? I’m sure you’ve looked at porn willingly too. I just don’t understand how your own anatomy could insult you? What is so wrong with woman’s breast and doing something natural? What does it matter if they’re out in the open? We see more skin from bikinis on the beach than from a mother breastfeeding. Why does it make you uncomfortable, I truly cannot understand why.
Why are you up my ass, girl? Slow your damn roll. The porn I watch in no way correlates to the occasional breast I see in a restaurant lobby, unless you’re insinuating that if I sexualize a mother then I’d be more accepting of NIP.
It makes me uncomfortable. Deal with it. I deal with what I see everyday and have no need or reason to say anything to breastfeeding mother WITHOUT a cover. I absolutely do plan to breastfeed. And what?
Accept the fact that not everyone is okay with everything they see all the time. It’s neither good nor bad, it simply is. Jeezis.
I’m nor “up your ass” you made a comment and I’m commenting back. You can’t even give me a reason why breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable but you willing admit that you look at porn, so I know why it does. You sexualize it just like everyone else. I guess you can’t see you lady’s are the problem on why its so uncommon for such a natural thing to happen in public.