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I honor the place within you, where, when you are in that place in you, and I am in that place in me, there is only one of us."
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fortheloveofswirl:

cosmicvoice:

fortheloveofswirl:

cosmicvoice:

fortheloveofswirl:

tied-mindenem:

Unpopular opinion: I can’t stand public breastfeeding. It is not common in my country, and fortunately I’ve only seen women breastfeeding in public twice. It makes me nauseaous to see other women’s breasts in public.

I don’t understand why they don’t pump and have their milk in a bottle if they…

I think you understand that the point is, if your baby is hungry, then by all means nurse no matter where you are. But I’ll agree with you that seeing women nurse in public without a cover also makes me uncomfortable. People can choose to plan better and pump prior to an outing, but they’re not obligated to. That’s probably my biggest pet peeve.

But if they can’t pump? If they don’t want to give a bottle to their baby? What if its the middle of the summer and its 90 degrees out? Do you want a blanket over your head while you eat? You can’t just make up an ideal situation and say that’s what woman should do, think about the different factors that could happen.

No one is obligated to modify how they NIP simply because of how it makes others feel. All I’m saying is that I agree with OP that it does make me uncomfortable when no cover is used.

Why? Don’t you have breast yourself? I’m sure you’ve looked at porn willingly too. I just don’t understand how your own anatomy could insult you? What is so wrong with woman’s breast and doing something natural? What does it matter if they’re out in the open? We see more skin from bikinis on the beach than from a mother breastfeeding. Why does it make you uncomfortable, I truly cannot understand why.

Why are you up my ass, girl? Slow your damn roll. The porn I watch in no way correlates to the occasional breast I see in a restaurant lobby, unless you’re insinuating that if I sexualize a mother then I’d be more accepting of NIP.

It makes me uncomfortable. Deal with it. I deal with what I see everyday and have no need or reason to say anything to breastfeeding mother WITHOUT a cover. I absolutely do plan to breastfeed. And what?

Accept the fact that not everyone is okay with everything they see all the time. It’s neither good nor bad, it simply is. Jeezis.

I’m nor “up your ass” you made a comment and I’m commenting back. You can’t even give me a reason why breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable but you willing admit that you look at porn, so I know why it does. You sexualize it just like everyone else. I guess you can’t see you lady’s are the problem on why its so uncommon for such a natural thing to happen in public.

geoffrmsy:

dekutree:

tbh I don’t see the fuss about having waiters/waitresses not being happy and enthusiastic like I came here to eat I didn’t come here to be amused by employees as long as I’m getting my food and they’re not being blatantly rude I don’t see why y’all need to go on yelp to rank a restaurant 0/5 and have an outburst on why your waitress didn’t smile at you when she poured you water

this is pretty fucking important

deviantseer:

These are the kinds of rings i need

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❝ Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds and ten years later the wounds are still there.

— Joel Osteen (via purplebuddhaproject)

❝ 

1. Date a boy who makes you happy, but marry him only if he makes you laugh deep-belly rumbles that hurt your ribs as they expand outwards. Date him when he sees that you’re hurting and he gives you a moment to feel that pain like a handprint spreading across your consciousness, marry him only if he can make you smile even while you’re gross sobbing. The world is not a kind place. You will feel a lot of pain. Make sure you are with someone who makes it all bearable. Humor is an excellent gauge of intelligence. Life gets boring. Find someone who makes the banal interesting.

2. Make sure he has scars on the back of his hands, it’s a good sign he has experience either fighting or making things - creation is an act of selflessness and bruised knuckles are a good sign he knows how to defend himself. You’ve got too much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate. If he’s never thrown a punch, let him at least have tasted the insanity of bringing an idea into existence. Rough palms are better than soft ones, they have been salted by this earth and made into leather. Callouses are evidence he has lived, that he has broken skin and been in pain over and over and over again and still came back to the source of it. People rub against each other. Don’t marry him if he can’t handle even a little blister.

3. Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting,see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.

4. Trust your instincts. If he ever makes you feel unsafe, don’t make excuses, just get up and leave. That’s all there is to it. It’s better to be safe than sorry.

5. If he puts money before you, he’ll keep pushing you to the bottom of the pile until you become his last priority. It’s one thing if he can’t afford what you want, it’s another if he has the cash but won’t spring for a box of chicken mcnuggets. Money and love are arch enemies. 62% of divorces occur due to economic strain. Make sure keeping you is more important than his 401k.

6. How a man treats animals is a good indicator of how he treats children. If you see him raise a hand to a dog, pack your things into a little black bag. Animals at their worst are only half as annoying as a toddler on their best behaviour. Your kids will be beautiful, but they will also misbehave. Same goes for waiters and hotel maids - if he’s rude to those who are working for minimum wage, it says a lot about how he sees himself. Patience is rare and so important. If he’s not forgiving to a dog, he’s not good for your kids.

7. If he isn’t in awe of you, he doesn’t deserve you. You are my little girl and you were born perfect. If he can’t see that, it’s his loss. There is someone who thinks your flaws power his heart. Be strong. If he asks you to change, be like like rock of your birthstone, do not waver. You are wondrous just the way that you are.

— My father’s recipe for the man I should marry (part 1/2 of a series). /// r.i.d  (via inkskinned)

I had this
I had you

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❝ Among other things, you’ll find that you’re not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You’re by no means alone on that score, you’ll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You’ll learn from them—if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It’s a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn’t education. It’s history. It’s poetry.

— J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye (via purplebuddhaproject)

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hellacious-earth:

Vintage // Nature

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psychedelic-psychiatrist:

"Control" by Aly Stinson

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fortheloveofswirl:

cosmicvoice:

fortheloveofswirl:

tied-mindenem:

Unpopular opinion: I can’t stand public breastfeeding. It is not common in my country, and fortunately I’ve only seen women breastfeeding in public twice. It makes me nauseaous to see other women’s breasts in public.

I don’t understand why they don’t pump and have their milk in a bottle if they…

I think you understand that the point is, if your baby is hungry, then by all means nurse no matter where you are. But I’ll agree with you that seeing women nurse in public without a cover also makes me uncomfortable. People can choose to plan better and pump prior to an outing, but they’re not obligated to. That’s probably my biggest pet peeve.

But if they can’t pump? If they don’t want to give a bottle to their baby? What if its the middle of the summer and its 90 degrees out? Do you want a blanket over your head while you eat? You can’t just make up an ideal situation and say that’s what woman should do, think about the different factors that could happen.

No one is obligated to modify how they NIP simply because of how it makes others feel. All I’m saying is that I agree with OP that it does make me uncomfortable when no cover is used.

Why? Don’t you have breast yourself? I’m sure you’ve looked at porn willingly too. I just don’t understand how your own anatomy could insult you? What is so wrong with woman’s breast and doing something natural? What does it matter if they’re out in the open? We see more skin from bikinis on the beach than from a mother breastfeeding. Why does it make you uncomfortable, I truly cannot understand why.

sixpenceee:

guykneecologist:

This.

omfg reblogging till the end of time

seavnteen:

truest shit ever spoken

seavnteen:

truest shit ever spoken

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http://tied-mindenem.tumblr.com/post/92820137672/unpopular-opinion-i-cant-stand-public

fortheloveofswirl:

tied-mindenem:

Unpopular opinion: I can’t stand public breastfeeding. It is not common in my country, and fortunately I’ve only seen women breastfeeding in public twice. It makes me nauseaous to see other women’s breasts in public.

I don’t understand why they don’t pump and have their milk in a bottle if they…

I think you understand that the point is, if your baby is hungry, then by all means nurse no matter where you are. But I’ll agree with you that seeing women nurse in public without a cover also makes me uncomfortable. People can choose to plan better and pump prior to an outing, but they’re not obligated to. That’s probably my biggest pet peeve.

But if they can’t pump? If they don’t want to give a bottle to their baby? What if its the middle of the summer and its 90 degrees out? Do you want a blanket over your head while you eat? You can’t just make up an ideal situation and say that’s what woman should do, think about the different factors that could happen.